How to be a cute boy.

I have a lot of male friends. More male than female actually. And I am lucky in that some of them are smart enough to ask my opinion on what a boy should wear to look fashionable without being too Metrosexual (though I see no problem with that either) A friend of mine who is in his 40's said he was too old and weighed to much to dress nice. WHAT? You are never too old, too fat or too short or too tall to dress nice! Fashion has no age/weight limits.
So I was grooving along to some Andrew Bird on last.fm recommendation radio and I went to click the little "I love this" button so they would play more like it and I saw these pics. Both are of Andrew and I think he is the perfect mix of fashion without trying to hard and how it has a slightly rumpled feel to keep it from being "trying to hard"
Also note the striped socks. Details like this take it away from looking like a corporate tool in a suit. The rolled sleeves as well. Details like that is what make the girls swoon too I must say.
Now I gotta be honest. I think a vest and tie would look equally as nice on 6'3" 300 lbs as it would on 5'9" 150 lbs. Its all about getting the right cut for your body. One may need bigger points on it than the other. Or one may do better with a collar on his vest in a stiffer material. I think the thing some men might suffer from is. Say they want a vest. They see one in a store and buy it without thinking "But is the right vest for me" Taken some time but I am getting thru on that one with the husband. Now he only likes slim cut dress shirts cause he sees now the ones that aren't even in his "size" are too big too much fabric. While the sleeve is the right length and the collar fits they were too poofy and kinda made him look like a gut he didn't have.

I am currently working on my summer fashion wants for men and women and my
"what I won't be buying this summer" list. Things and trends that I don't think I am on onboard with at least for my body and coloring.